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Different Kind of Laziness

August 30, 2020

Messy Lego


I hate it when diligent people are being lazy. 

I am a lazy person. I am lazy yesterday, today, tomorrow, and (most probably) forever, so there is no way that I'll do anything that makes me need to do more than necessary. 

Take tidying up clothes, for instance. I wash my clothes, dry it, then just stack them by group, child one's clothes and pants, me and my husband's clothes and pants, and the baby's. No folding, no ironing, unless we need to go to a certain wedding, or wearing a very-delicate suits.

I don't like stacking them up in one big pile, why? Because then when I need something I'll need to search through the BIG pile, and I'm too lazy for that. But, when a diligent person is being lazy, they'll skip folding and ironing and just piling up the clothes! UGH! What a mess!

Or dishes. I don't like washing dishes. I keep procrastinating, until I have no more plates on the drying rack (yes, drying rack, I wash dishes, put them there, use them, then wash it again - no need to transfer it someplace else). Even though I do that, but you'll never see me putting a plate on top of a cup, or leaving an oily wok, or let the sink full of water, because some leftover is clogging the drain. Why? Because it'll make me have to work harder by the time I decided to wash them and I'm too lazy to spend too much time on stuff like that.

When a diligent people is being lazy, UGH. Even I, whose name is never associated with tidiness, can't stand looking at the messy sink.

See, when a lazy person created a mess, we created a methodological mess(?), you know... We created a beautiful mess. When a diligent person is being lazy, they created... A MESS. Period.

Merasa Bodoh? Ya Mungkin Memang Bodoh

August 6, 2020

Ya udah gitu aja. Cukup jelas.

Saya Bingung

June 20, 2020

Kejadian itu rasanya masih sangat jelas di ingatan. Saya berusia sekitar sembilan tahun. Waktu itu sedang perayaan Hari Kemerdekaan, papa saya sedang bercengkrama dengan satu orang tetangga, saya lupa bagaimana awalnya, tapi percakapan antara mereka sampai ke titik ini,

Papa: Kalau ga percaya saya rajin salat, lihat aja sarung saya. Coba kak, tolong ambilin sarung papa.
Saya: (Lari dari lapangan ke rumah, demi mengambil sarung. Lalu saya kasih sarungnya ke papa saya.)

Percakapan mereka ternyata masih berlanjut,

After All This Time?

December 14, 2019
What is your favorite time of day?

At night. When I’m alone and is free to do whatever I want.

After all this time?


Ngalong Ngidul - Episode 2

July 14, 2019

In this episode we are talking about online shopping and its advantages, especially for mothers and women.

Ngalong Ngidul - Episode 1

July 2, 2019

My partner and I created a podcast. There is no specific theme whatsoever for this podcast. We just want to talk about anything, hence the name. Ngalong ngidul.

Selamat mendengarkan!

Thank You

February 24, 2019

I've always believe that I am more of a lucky person instead of a diligent one. I have always been surrounded by talented and kind people, so that I have all kind of opportunities to get better and move forward.

In this post, I'd like to thank some of them. The most memorable encounters that bring me to where I am today.

Let's start from high school. I'd like to thanks my extended family, especially one of my aunt and grandma, who provided me with some kind of living cost scholarship(?). They paid for my meals, pocket money, stuff that I need for school, and so on and so forth, so that I could live comfortably in Bandung at that time. My aunt (and his husband) also came to Bandung and spent some time with me, talking about my education and life. It was a small thing for them, but it meant a lot for me at that time.

I went to Pribadi Bandung for my high school. There I met lots of dedicated teachers, not saying that every one is good, but lots of them are. Being one of the stupidest in class motivated me to keep up with the rest of my friends. I am thankful for most of the teachers there, especially Mr. Musa and Mr. Bakis. Sorry that I can't make it to the international olympiad. Still regretting it 'till now.